I daydream a lot about this surgery and have considered trying to save up money to get it, but I get so scared about how it could potentially mess up your quality of life, especially from all the after effects I’ve heard described. Do you think it would still be worth getting?

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    25 days ago

    in theory yes but woman was ćreated from removing a rib from a man so needing to have ribs removed just reaffirms that i am a man and iwnb eve but it looks niće but what if they make a new man from my ribs and hes like me but didnt transition and he mogs me in every way and then id have to kill him but id lose the fight because the testosterone in his veins would make him stronger htan me

    but aćtually they’d make a woman from my rib and she’d mog me in every way and we wouldnt even have to fight bećause id just kill myself if I saw a ćis woman version of me walking around and mogging me everyday of my worthlessl ife

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      25 days ago

      i looked into clavicle shortening too but i think that surgery genuinely has proven long term complications, i defintely don’t think it’s worth especially for how little they take off in most cases.

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        im very tempted by it i think me killing myself over my shoulders is a worse health complication

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          the shoulders can actually be fixed in better ways by being more balanced though. even in this rib pic rel i shared in the before she actually already had clavicle shortening and you probably couldn’t tell at all. what actually made the difference is the ribs.

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            i measured my shoulders and they are longer than even male average

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        i’ve heard so much conflicting information on clavicle shortening, what are the proven long term complications?

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          long term was maybe the wrong phrase to use as the surgery is still pretty new overall, but i mean even short term complications seem pretty abundant. if you look at the trans surgeries sub there’s lot of complaints about mobility, fragility, having to get revision, etc. on top of that most results barely look like they have changes since they can only take so much. it feels like the equivalent of a 6’3" person getting height surgery to be 2 inches smaller, just not worth it.

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    ive done a lot of research on this as my ribcage dysphoria is rly bad, and it depends very much on the method of rib cosmetic surgery u get, the one in ur picrel is MIRR (minimally invasive rib remodeling) which has fewer possible complications since it heals your floating ribs into a new position as opposed to completely removing them which is harmful long term

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      i defintely agree with that which is honestly why i made this post, i don’t think looking good is worth giving up being able to even live your life. i just hope maybe it becomes better/safer somehow