I don’t know it’s obviously a silly idea, but I felt really powerful waving around my Pan and Trans flag,

And the wind was really nice, and surely no one I know would have noticed me in the crowd, or will spread this fact around

It’s a big city

I felt like picrel though

  • RabbitHoleGirlyOP
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    2 days ago

    Hey, I know, but what do you want me to do… I have a right to exist, don’t I… I know I’m lucky to be stealth, but it’s kinda silly to bully me about trying to improve trans visibility and passing… no?

    Like I can be trans, and pass and therefore should be acknowledged at what trans-ness could be

    • DysphoriaGirl
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      2 days ago

      I am sorry… you are right… I am just extremely jealous and feel like… ugh… you either understand what I mean becaues you’ve been there or you are a heartless evil passoid but I dont think that you are or you wouldnt be here… but yeah… I hope you are happy and get to live a good life… I am just extremely angry I will never have this myself

      • RabbitHoleGirlyOP
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        2 days ago

        I have been there, and I personally do believe you’ll pass, because ever since I was 13… I can’t imagine anyone trying and not passing… this maybe juvenile maximalism and naïvete but like you’ll make it, I’m sure of it ;)

          • RabbitHoleGirlyOP
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            2 days ago

            Idk, I’ve genuinely not interacted with a trans women I don’t think is passing… but maybe because I’m at school at they’re midshits at the latest

            I don’t know what it’s like to be trans, and not figure it out at like 13-19

            And even 19 seems a bit late

            • DysphoriaGirl
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              1 day ago

              Please shut up and stop bragging… like I am happy for you but yeah some of us are fucking unlucky and if you dont see that, then that is a you problem… I didnt know until 19y old because most of us didnt have the privellege of being able to figure it out because doing that at an earlier age would have meant the death of us… so yeah.

              • RabbitHoleGirlyOP
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                1 day ago

                … I risked death… I was in Dubai, my dad’s homophobic, my mom is homophobic, my grandma is homophobic, my grandpa is homophobic

                I don’t know how I figured it out

                I understand that you didn’t, I’ve just not seen people who figure it out at that age outside, I understand why maybe… and I don’t fault you… just me acknowledging a gap in my knowledge

                • DysphoriaGirl
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                  1 day ago

                  I am sorry that happened to you… my parent’s are also transphobic and homophobic…

                  I just fucking despise myself for not having figured it out earlier…

                  • RabbitHoleGirlyOP
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                    1 day ago

                    And I do not judge you for that…I just pointing out that I wish I knew more about what life is like for people who figure out later because I’ve not seen them irl