I don’t know it’s obviously a silly idea, but I felt really powerful waving around my Pan and Trans flag,

And the wind was really nice, and surely no one I know would have noticed me in the crowd, or will spread this fact around

It’s a big city

I felt like picrel though

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      Yeah it felt important to for some reason, like I’m often stealth in life, but I feel that means I’m not visible enough to actually normalize it, in a way

      Idk as a stealthoid it felt like the one day where it’s more appropriate to be seen

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        Issue with stealthing is like… girls likevus on here would well, see u as cis. Funny how it works

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          Yeah, but that’s why I had the trans flag

          And hopefully by having also the Pan flag, I’m symbolizing that this represents me

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            You are a beautiful being on the inside and outside probably too (i like women so probably yeah) and i am inspired to one day be like you with this stuff

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      Hey, I know, but what do you want me to do… I have a right to exist, don’t I… I know I’m lucky to be stealth, but it’s kinda silly to bully me about trying to improve trans visibility and passing… no?

      Like I can be trans, and pass and therefore should be acknowledged at what trans-ness could be

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        I am sorry… you are right… I am just extremely jealous and feel like… ugh… you either understand what I mean becaues you’ve been there or you are a heartless evil passoid but I dont think that you are or you wouldnt be here… but yeah… I hope you are happy and get to live a good life… I am just extremely angry I will never have this myself

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          I have been there, and I personally do believe you’ll pass, because ever since I was 13… I can’t imagine anyone trying and not passing… this maybe juvenile maximalism and naïvete but like you’ll make it, I’m sure of it ;)

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              Idk, I’ve genuinely not interacted with a trans women I don’t think is passing… but maybe because I’m at school at they’re midshits at the latest

              I don’t know what it’s like to be trans, and not figure it out at like 13-19

              And even 19 seems a bit late

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                Please shut up and stop bragging… like I am happy for you but yeah some of us are fucking unlucky and if you dont see that, then that is a you problem… I didnt know until 19y old because most of us didnt have the privellege of being able to figure it out because doing that at an earlier age would have meant the death of us… so yeah.

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                  … I risked death… I was in Dubai, my dad’s homophobic, my mom is homophobic, my grandma is homophobic, my grandpa is homophobic

                  I don’t know how I figured it out

                  I understand that you didn’t, I’ve just not seen people who figure it out at that age outside, I understand why maybe… and I don’t fault you… just me acknowledging a gap in my knowledge

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    wish i lived on a planet where i felt comfortable being open with everybody at all times tbh

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      I get that, I don’t think I could be open to everybody either

      I just live my life pretending that I’m cis

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        just want being a tranny to be like being green eyed or or freckled or whatever

        just some innocuous detail

        i mourn this not being the reality we can live in

        probs cuz im a open book by nature

        i have no natural aversion to my truth being known, just an aversion to giving people reason to be two-faced to me, or to be violent, to view my existence as a statement when it’s just me

        i’m glad you had that picrel-esque moment of le heckin’ troon pride

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          I get that, yeah I feel like I lived in that world a bit today, where I’m trans, but that doesn’t matter

          Either way I probably will go invisible again for the rest of the year unfortunately