I don’t know it’s obviously a silly idea, but I felt really powerful waving around my Pan and Trans flag,

And the wind was really nice, and surely no one I know would have noticed me in the crowd, or will spread this fact around

It’s a big city

I felt like picrel though

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    I have been there, and I personally do believe you’ll pass, because ever since I was 13… I can’t imagine anyone trying and not passing… this maybe juvenile maximalism and naïvete but like you’ll make it, I’m sure of it ;)

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        Idk, I’ve genuinely not interacted with a trans women I don’t think is passing… but maybe because I’m at school at they’re midshits at the latest

        I don’t know what it’s like to be trans, and not figure it out at like 13-19

        And even 19 seems a bit late

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          Please shut up and stop bragging… like I am happy for you but yeah some of us are fucking unlucky and if you dont see that, then that is a you problem… I didnt know until 19y old because most of us didnt have the privellege of being able to figure it out because doing that at an earlier age would have meant the death of us… so yeah.

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            … I risked death… I was in Dubai, my dad’s homophobic, my mom is homophobic, my grandma is homophobic, my grandpa is homophobic

            I don’t know how I figured it out

            I understand that you didn’t, I’ve just not seen people who figure it out at that age outside, I understand why maybe… and I don’t fault you… just me acknowledging a gap in my knowledge

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              I am sorry that happened to you… my parent’s are also transphobic and homophobic…

              I just fucking despise myself for not having figured it out earlier…

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                And I do not judge you for that…I just pointing out that I wish I knew more about what life is like for people who figure out later because I’ve not seen them irl