I’m really just sorry but it just feels like sexuality inherently invalidates transness and that it should not exist and that a trans person should in the best case scenario literally be asexual until transition, so literally not even capable of feeling any sexual stuff.

Like to me this just feels true… that sexuality makes gender inherently dirty and bad and invalid because if somebody sexualizes wanting to be a woman then clearly they are not a woman or would just want to be that out of sexual reasons…

Being a woman is not inherently sexual and existing with a body, having a gender is non sexual endeavor and so sexuality should not play any role in being trans and wanting to change that gender…

If one’s gender and sexualiy are tangled up, then we have a major problem and need to first remove or fix the sexuality before we can allow any new gender…

Like sex is just bad and if one doesn’t want their gender to be corrupted by that then it has to never have had anyhting to do or be shaped by sexuality.

That’s how it feels to me.

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    You should get on hrt to block testosterone and see if it’s influencing you negatively then make a decision.

    Chances are you won’t get any irreversible physical effects in the first couple weeks anyways so might as well

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        No you don’t need to “deserve” it lol what

        That’s so retarded do you think trans people who do something bad should be forcibly detrooned? Do you think they should be forcibly detrooned for having a sexuality? Like most of us here have (I mean you’ve seen hornygen I assume)

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          I do need to prove that I’m actually trans. And no they shouldn’t be detrooned but if their behavior is indicative of them not being actually trans then they shouldn’t be transitioning cause they are literally not actual real transsexuals…

          If you are 100% a man and just decide to transition cause it helps you jerk off better than you’re not a woman… you’re just a gross moid.

          I am a gross disgusting subhuman moid.

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            if their behaviour is indicative of them not being actually trans then they shouldn’t be transitioning

            This is flawed, handwavey logic and I’m sure I don’t have to explain why.