I drove like 2 hours to see Hamnet with him, ending up bawling repeatedly during the film, and he let me lean on his shoulder and put my hand on him after I asked!! I also got a hug too! I just wish I could’ve held his hand…

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    i got second hand falling in love, you two sound adorable <3 how is he with the trans thing?

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      I glanced upon it, especially when I was over his house and was talking about it, but there wasn’t a negative reaction. I think, based on experiences, that I come off as more “ambiguous”, so it’s ultimately mostly personality thats drawing him in. It seems in this case with how slow everything’s going, he is feeling it out more than anything, so it’s very unclear, especially paired with how quiet he is. It is honestly one of the things I worry about as I am yet to get surgery (or even see if it’s an option), but I guess time will tell.

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          He doesn’t seem the type to “hatecrime”. It’ll most likely be being dropped, which I am used to. I am worried about it, but I think I should just enjoy something for once without being so worried it’s falling out of my ears.

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    that sounds so very lovely! I hope you two have tons more fun! what’s your favorite thing about him?

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      He is very quiet but forthcoming with information when I ask, and he is really cute. He is also a boxer, so he’s very lean, and he also says he likes to listen to me yap about the most inconsequential things. I know you only said one but he’s so nice to talk about.

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      I was on a dating app a long time ago, met him before he was going to delete his profile because he was already in a relationship, but we decided to become friends. He broke up with them not long after saying the relationship was too codependent, and he invited me to his house, where we started out watching a movie, but I told him about all the snail species he had in his aquarium, about the bacteria mats, and made his roommates cat love me because I pet like a real g. We ended up laying on his bed after a while of sitting outside because the movie was boring, and we talked about all manner of things. He also called it a date, and said he never really let people lay on his bed with him this quickly into meeting him. I wanted to respect his boundaries but hes really really cute and when I left he hugged me!