I drove like 2 hours to see Hamnet with him, ending up bawling repeatedly during the film, and he let me lean on his shoulder and put my hand on him after I asked!! I also got a hug too! I just wish I could’ve held his hand…

  • andrianainyourarea
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    1 month ago

    i got second hand falling in love, you two sound adorable <3 how is he with the trans thing?

    • Lengthofdry1943OP
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      1 month ago

      I glanced upon it, especially when I was over his house and was talking about it, but there wasn’t a negative reaction. I think, based on experiences, that I come off as more “ambiguous”, so it’s ultimately mostly personality thats drawing him in. It seems in this case with how slow everything’s going, he is feeling it out more than anything, so it’s very unclear, especially paired with how quiet he is. It is honestly one of the things I worry about as I am yet to get surgery (or even see if it’s an option), but I guess time will tell.

        • Lengthofdry1943OP
          1·
          1 month ago

          He doesn’t seem the type to “hatecrime”. It’ll most likely be being dropped, which I am used to. I am worried about it, but I think I should just enjoy something for once without being so worried it’s falling out of my ears.