my grades are fucked and i have no options rn

  1. full medical withdrawal: i would have to move out of campus housing and i really cannot do that for several reasons
  2. withdraw from all but 1 class: there is no class that im doing well enough in to do this and still get a c or above (i must get a 2.0 or above every semester or ill be kicked out of college cause of my fucked up past (academic suspension))
  3. kill myself

3 looks more and more appealing every single day

  • ebrickhon
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    1 month ago

    Obviously you have done everything you can but I am saying random shit anyway. Do you think you could explain your position to any of your professors then see if they could help you with getting a C in the class?

    I hope things are able to work themselves out I know the feeling of having all of your classes crash down around you its horrible.

    • DesiresAreGreyOP
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      1 month ago

      nah i’ve done almost no work in my classes and it’s already march. im so fucked. i should’ve fucking quit weed earlier. fuck my life

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        1 month ago

        Last thing I will say on annoying advice giving. I was in almost literally the exact same position and I did get lucky my professor gave me mercy after going to them with 0 work turned in before the midterm. Its a humiliation ritual having to go to them but it could work out if any of them seem like they could ever give you a break especially with them knowing that it means you get to continue your education if they do. From your posts it seems you have had some health complications as well recently your professors can be more forgiving than you might think given the circumstances that got you here.

        Regardless I hope you the best despite everything going on. I love the polls you put out it shows how capable you are I couldn’t ever put something like that together. The poll results have helped make me feel normal despite everything going on. <3

      • Narcissus
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        1 month ago

        really reccommemd you try and get in touch with professors just to see if an extension or anything is possible

        • DesiresAreGreyOP
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          1 month ago

          im meeting with the dean of students thursday but theres really only so much he can do. its not even like i can tell him about my weed addiction cause its not allowed here. im planning on substituting my weed addiction with alcohol when i talk with him. except i dont actually know shit about regular alcohol use much less addiction. like if i talk about like the stuff im going through with weed addiction but pretend its alcohol addiction it wont translate 1:1 and he’d prob just get confused

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            1 month ago

            i’m not sure what’s it’s like where you are but i know at least the university i went to offered amnesty/help for things like drug addiction even if it’s illegal, maybe double check to see if they have policies like that.

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              1 month ago

              the thing is it’s not illegal it’s just against the rules which i feel like makes it risky

  • Tacos4Tuesday
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    30 days ago

    I did the medical withdrawal and the three is real. If you want, I could share my experience with you. I’m in the same boat.