does anyone else have the belief that every cis lesbian is completely asexual, or at least has little interest in sex? ive never met one who has any sort of meaningful sex drive and its fucking me up (agp, likes women)… should i just go touch grass more or what i have no idea. all my friends are telling me that they observe the complete opposite and they have no idea where i get this notion from
i think you’re probably just really unlucky :<
i’ve met plenty of lesbians and most of them seem pretty open about it? they have tended to already be in relationships though. maybe it’s the spaces you’re finding these people in?
my sample size is 3, tbh, maybe i just got an unlucky sample. 2 are from high school, and one is a friend’s sister. also trvke about being in relationships already… i live in a woke city that has a lesbian bar, though, and i would probably shoot myself before i walked in the door (invading women’s spaces), but i guess it proves that literally not every single one is already in a relationship
yeah… that’s probably too few people to say they’re all asexual. idk much about you, but you could always try concerts or events or whatnot?
i used to go to a lot of post-hardcore and metal concerts with a friend. or like maybe a local goth night? that’s where i’ve met most of them tbh.
obviously those are pretty specific interests, but like generally, if you’re in a woke city, there’s probably something equivalent for whatever you like that happens semi-regularly.
ive thought about this, ive tried going to certain events but i didnt make any lasting connections there, just people i talked to and left. also in my personal opinion it’s not too easy to even find events, im college age and everyone i know is in college (im in cummunity college lol no one talks to each other). ive thought about going to concerts but i dont have much money… and im also not even old enough to drink, so a bar isn’t an option either (usa moment). like i dont really know what to do to not be so lonely, it makes me quite sad
for real :(
it’s basically impossible to find someone irl :<
i know dating apps are the agents of satan, but sometimes, i feel tempted to use one, just so i dont feel unloveable and lonely
My two girl friends are together and they constantly tell me how wet the other makes them lmao
yeah so i think im just insane also giwtwm so bad. iwn make a girl wet holy fucking celibacyfuel
I have a cisles sister and she for sure isn’t asexual, neither are most of her lesbian friends
i might just be delusional lmao.
yeah, it feels like the cis lesbians that actually like sex are the exception. i’d guess like at least half of them as ace / gray-ace. it goes without saying that the average trans women has vastly different feelings about sex than the average cis women does.
tho this feeling is probably amplified by how moid puberty mentally fucked us up and made us agp-esque.
truth nuke. but like, why does everyone i know say the opposite? it feels really weird to have all my friends swear up and down that ace lesbians are the exception not the norm, but ive never seen it in real life. it feels like a freak agp yuri fastasy
hugboxxing probably :(
it doesnt feel like hugboxxing though, it feels like theyre borderline mocking me for having such an upside-down view of the world
sex is just a thing perverted moids invented to create more semen. real ethereal wxmbyn have no such need for male-brained hedonism and can subsist on normal behaviors like yearning and looking into each other’s eyes.
unironically what it feels like.
