does anyone else have the belief that every cis lesbian is completely asexual, or at least has little interest in sex? ive never met one who has any sort of meaningful sex drive and its fucking me up (agp, likes women)… should i just go touch grass more or what i have no idea. all my friends are telling me that they observe the complete opposite and they have no idea where i get this notion from

  • Anna Apeson
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    1 month ago

    yeah, it feels like the cis lesbians that actually like sex are the exception. i’d guess like at least half of them as ace / gray-ace. it goes without saying that the average trans women has vastly different feelings about sex than the average cis women does.

    tho this feeling is probably amplified by how moid puberty mentally fucked us up and made us agp-esque.

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      1 month ago

      truth nuke. but like, why does everyone i know say the opposite? it feels really weird to have all my friends swear up and down that ace lesbians are the exception not the norm, but ive never seen it in real life. it feels like a freak agp yuri fastasy

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          1 month ago

          it doesnt feel like hugboxxing though, it feels like theyre borderline mocking me for having such an upside-down view of the world