does anyone else have the belief that every cis lesbian is completely asexual, or at least has little interest in sex? ive never met one who has any sort of meaningful sex drive and its fucking me up (agp, likes women)… should i just go touch grass more or what i have no idea. all my friends are telling me that they observe the complete opposite and they have no idea where i get this notion from


ive thought about this, ive tried going to certain events but i didnt make any lasting connections there, just people i talked to and left. also in my personal opinion it’s not too easy to even find events, im college age and everyone i know is in college (im in cummunity college lol no one talks to each other). ive thought about going to concerts but i dont have much money… and im also not even old enough to drink, so a bar isn’t an option either (usa moment). like i dont really know what to do to not be so lonely, it makes me quite sad
for real :(
it’s basically impossible to find someone irl :<
i know dating apps are the agents of satan, but sometimes, i feel tempted to use one, just so i dont feel unloveable and lonely