Now I’m curious. And don’t just say someone who kills you. Give me some detail!

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    1 month ago

    Hard to say, it’s been ages since I’ve been really attracted to anyone IRL

    I think I’d mainly want a guy who’s, you know, okay with me. I’d want us to be able to talk and joke around with easily, too, good conversation partner, yknow? I kinda have a thing for blondes and redheads too I guess

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    1 month ago

    I like altruistic, shy, feminine women who are very intelligent. I value independence and mutual support. Physically, I like boobs and good makeup. Hobbies/interests wise, I hope she loves math, or likes indie/electronic music.

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      1 month ago

      Every post you make is insanely based. If she wasn’t taken, I’d offer you my passoid friends number.

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        1 month ago

        Thank you! Crazy that I’m getting recognized already, but I guess tranistan is a pretty small community. Honestly, I think I should decenter relationships and wait, because I’m looking for someone relatively specific. No point in fretting, when I can focus on the other important things in life, like studies/career, friendships, hobbies, etc.

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    1 month ago

    someone who looks like me probably, so im not in constant fear of being left

    … sadly in my experience i think its kinda rare to be as ugly as i am

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      1 month ago

      Now, this is going to sound super sneedy. But I don’t think anybody is really all that ugly. I worked in fashion and hairstyling and makeup, and realistically everybody is a few life changes and a styling session away from mogging themselves.

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        1 month ago

        how exactly? i can’t think of much i can improve on other than makeup. the isssue is 90% like, my midface ratio + head width + head length i mean i have a pretty prominent brow bone and stuff too, but i don’t focus on things that can be fixed by surgery for my own sanity…

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          You’d be surprised. It’s hard to say without a picture of what I’m working with and a team, but positive health indicators and improved posture alone do a world of good. that’s not to say you’ll immediately pass with a makeover and pilates, but everybody looks cute with a new 'do and glowing skin.

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            1 month ago

            can u explain posture? i already stand with my back straight and sit properly and stuff (although i cant rly sit with my legs crossed if im at a table/desk since my knee goes wayyy too high)

            i see things about putting ur shoulders back and stuff, but whenever i do it, it looks rly unnatural and is kind of uncomfortable

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              1 month ago

              Don’t force your shoulders back. roll them up to your ears and let them drop back and down.

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    1 month ago

    dark hair and blue eyes has always been my weakness… a firm attitude, secure in himself but open to life…

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      On my trip to Italy, I met this really cute boy just like that. He was such a sweetheart and a gentleman. I wish I got his number, he gifted my friend such a lovely brooch.

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    1 month ago

    Tall, masculine, makes me lough, dominant, let’s me have alone time, independent, has niche interests, likes music

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    a guy who genuinely gives a shit about me. i think its my ideal type because everything else seems meaningless compared to someone who can return my feelings, fully trust me and never leave me

    like i know this is some sappy shit but it kinda gets to you after youre lonely your whole life

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      1 month ago

      Never call beautiful romance sappy shit. That’s beautiful. And it’s coming your way.

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        i guess it is beautiful but lets be honest, it’s only going to exist inside my head for the near future and possibly for my lifetime because the chances of meeting someone like this are close to a 0

        thankfully i have huggable plushies and a wild imagination to cope with so its not all that bad

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      Someone who needs me. Someone I can bring love and security and warmth to. Someone who doesn’t mind being spoiled and taken out. People who like praise. People who don’t mind when you’re a bit silly or autistic about some things. Physically, it doesn’t really matter to me. You’d be hard pressed to find someone I couldn’t deeply love one way or the other. I prefer trannies (disgusting cis chaser larper, God forgive me.) because there’s a closer understanding.

      • Wandering
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        1 month ago

        aww. I hope you find your person someday. good luck with the date tonight by the way, you got this!

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    I like people with chubby faces. I want to cuddle them and nurture them and give them a happy life.

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      That’s so based. I don’t have a preference for body types or anything but… chubby people are nice. I prefer them over the super hot and conventionally attractive cissies. They love to eat what you make and they give the best hugs.

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    Dood Simp Taller than me Someone I can help feel better. Clingy Sexually dominant Stfu when I say to Hate childish shit so he has to not be a homestuck hazbin hotel ftm

    I would give him so much

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    1 month ago

    can i answer “i don’t know”

    bc the only explicit 100% crush ive ever had was with one of my classmates in HS and i still don’t know why other than that we talked a lot online

    and beyond that i feel like im more attracted to the idea of having a bf than a specific guy (idk what that entails)

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      1 month ago

      Nothing to worry about. You seem pretty open minded. I hear there’s like a romantic or sexual thing for people who can only feel that stuff when they get to know someone very intimately and closely. it’s kweer stuff, but it might apply.

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        1 month ago

        maybe, but at the same time i get a 25% crush on every mildly attractive guy i see

        or not even attractive just random guys with no rhyme or reason

        only exceptions (as in people this never happens to) are, like, relatives and ghoul-phenotype conservatives

        so it’s some weird in between

  • puppyoomf
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    maybe its corny but i fantasize about a kind of relationship where she expects a lot out of me and encourages me i dont know if thats something i shouldnt try to want in a romantic relationship but yeah

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      That’s never corny, It’s adorable. Having a partner with enough ambition for you left over is a blessing.