I don’t honestly know what to do I think I’m genuinely making her sick. Like I feel really bad and I’m worried she was like actually breaking down and hyperventilating this is fucking terrible.

I was I believe rightfully a bit upset over being called he today (4th time in a row) and she was like “Do you realize how good you have it? Do you realize what these other girls must go through meanwhile you completely throw your life away. You pass perfectly fine. Why can’t you accept it, you’re sick.”. Every instance of me being misgendered recently to her is a “simple accident that could happen to any girl” despite me not being particularly gendered female since early last year and having been he/himed 4 times in a row now.

She 100% genuinely believes I pass too. I hear her talking to my dad downstairs right now if I listen through the door going “Why can’t she see it? Why can’t she understand how good she looks.”

idk…I feel really awful and I’d feel like a complete utter cunt, but I have like actual objective evidence of me not passing anymore and I’m obviously going to get upset over something I valued being taken from me.

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    ygmi, your mother having to reassure you that you’re pretty is the most fembrained thing ever

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    2 months ago

    u pass to me girlie, and men are just stupid and say bro or male pronouns cus its gender neutral for them. dont let it get to u

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      2 months ago

      that’s not the context to the recent happenings…

      Thank you, though means a lot

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    2 months ago

    I feel this way in similar situations and then I’ve always gotten ppl to admit I’m actually hideous / look nothing like a cisf (obviously)

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    I’m so envious that you have parents like that… my parents would never… they’d just call me a faggot… I’m so envious that your parents accept you… meanwhile my parents would cut me to pieces