My gfs friend who she lives with says she noticed ive had a deep voice for a while now ( ~98 hz, been dropped for 3 months ish ) and says she feels bad abt calling me by my deadname still… i was also semi-outed kinda a couple months back ( when i was like one month hrt my gf used he/him on an ig story and deleted it, this person and m a few others saw it tho). Is this more embarrassing than just coming out bc i assumed nothing would be said until i did. What the fuck i kinda have to come out now right. I see her probably like next week ir smthn and i am NOT READY😭✌️
Reupload bc i accidentally uploaded to 4tranistan bc my mum called me mid post ( havent spoke to her in 4 months)
98hz is crazy how did u think u were girlmoding with that
In my head not coming out = girlmode bc everyone i know ( i assumed ) still sees me as a girl. To strangers i pass pretty consistently and havent been clocked in a while and jst look young.
yea i mean ppl u know always see u the same as pretransition in my experience. your voice is deeper than my lowest speaking voice though so there’s no way they haven’t noticed anything 😭
i mean at work when it first dropped i had a couple comments abt having a cold but now it has stopped. And nobody gaf anymore 😭😭😭 same with my flatmate and my other friends except no comments. I asked my gf a couple weeks back and she said it just sounds like ive overused it or shouted a lot so its not as good as u imagine
they might’ve guessed already and just don’t wanna bring it up cause it’s awkward or cause you haven’t said anything
ehh maybe. i doubt it tho for work im always grouped in and refered to as ladies and shit like that . Flatmate most likely knows . Irl friends i dont see enough to have an understanding of where they place me. Did tell myself when i start passing ill come out. Guess i just gotta start doing it
yea that’s fair. i didnt come out at work until like 2.5 years hrt and ffs and i still get misgendered by ppl there that knew me early/pre transition occasionally even now 1 year later. i think it’s hard to change ppls perception of u after they already know u one way
Fr so i thought whatever i can just not come out if it dont change anything😭🙏 how long test bro maybe itll keep dropping
EDIT ok sorry i checked profile and ur a troon. #sorry it came across as no voice drop dood to me. Maybe u are luckshit or just trained really well so dw 😭🙏
oh i’m on E now lmao but i trooned out at 22 so like 10 years?
i don’t think i’m that much of a luckshit but my guy voice is like 140 average my lowest comfortable is 120 haha
omg hiiiii!!! long time no talk
YOU CAME BACK AGAIN!? 😭😭 hi howve u been
i did 😭 im like an addict smh… tbh ive been better!! theres a good chance ill be homeless soon kek. how are you tho??
Yeah it gets u… i just need somewhere to go sometiems… How come u might be homeless? Or is that too personal?? In my other news hmmm NOTHING🤦🤦🤦 besides becoming an actual semipassoid rather than delusions i guess thats it. Andmy family keep trying to talk to me all the time but i just ignore them
not too personal dw. my mom and i are to be moving into a new place and they need my id with my legal name like, now, and ill have my id with my legal name in like, a month >.< congrats on (semi)passing!!! ygmi
Ohhh thats so annoying im sorry… i get scared as fuck thinking abt trying yo change my legal name now considering idk if it will go back to my family 😭 but im glad ur getting a new id
Welcum back. How long on Test?
5 months on Sunday. Been gone a while bc i been in discord more but hopefully gonna try be more active 🌹
Horee shitu 5 months and 98hz? Holy luckshit
God gives his luckshittest traits to his most fembrained not-coming-out coward pooners
Hi, I think I seen you before from here or reddit
Could be either. Not been too active here or the sub in a while tho
