My gfs friend who she lives with says she noticed ive had a deep voice for a while now ( ~98 hz, been dropped for 3 months ish ) and says she feels bad abt calling me by my deadname still… i was also semi-outed kinda a couple months back ( when i was like one month hrt my gf used he/him on an ig story and deleted it, this person and m a few others saw it tho). Is this more embarrassing than just coming out bc i assumed nothing would be said until i did. What the fuck i kinda have to come out now right. I see her probably like next week ir smthn and i am NOT READY😭✌️
Reupload bc i accidentally uploaded to 4tranistan bc my mum called me mid post ( havent spoke to her in 4 months)
ehh maybe. i doubt it tho for work im always grouped in and refered to as ladies and shit like that . Flatmate most likely knows . Irl friends i dont see enough to have an understanding of where they place me. Did tell myself when i start passing ill come out. Guess i just gotta start doing it
yea that’s fair. i didnt come out at work until like 2.5 years hrt and ffs and i still get misgendered by ppl there that knew me early/pre transition occasionally even now 1 year later. i think it’s hard to change ppls perception of u after they already know u one way