i get that mutual suffering is like a horrible way to make a friendship, im glad my friends keep me around and one of them wants me to go out with a group sometime to a rave, but like, do you find it harder to make friends even in fields of mutual interest or understanding? idk friends with me were never a strong suit i just get adopted by groups a lot.

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    7 days ago

    I feel like I’m stepping over boundaries whenever I act like a person I’ve talked to is my friend

    • Lengthofdry1943OP
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      7 days ago

      its really hard that way too, ive found that people who seek you out at least are more friend material starting out, though ones that are easily talked to are more acquaintance material. i guess its a way to find out, because its really just a game of social catch.