real

I still think friends are doable but I don’t know how to cope withthe fact that I’ll never have a partner

is this a boymoder thing or a stealth pooner thing

the most mentally stable version of this I can give you is that you always have to consider if there’s something better you could be doing

you gotta hold on to life with both hands and never let go if you wanna do anything but it seems like everyone lets go eventually. I guess you just have to keep grabbing it again and again.

reading this makes me wish that gun wounds were fully reversible like scratches, because there’s kind of a limit to the number of times a girl can shoot you, even if it’s non-lethal every time

what’s the trope?

a lot of people are watching this show now huh

look I started around the same time I didn’t know if you were in the same group as me or if it was like a “some people transition at 11 but I only transitioned at 14”

ah fair

when did you start?

the easy answer is that trans people get roped into the queer community so more of them come out as gay & bisexual like their cis peers. there may be a larger discussion about the overrepresentation of gynephiles among trans women but agp is a very reductive answer, especially since a lot of people, cis & trans, male & female, gay & straight are autogynephilic in the literal sense of the word. also the fact that this overrepresentation of homo- & bisexuality is mirrored for FtMs doesn’t jive with agp theory I wouldn’t think.

that makes it even easier surely? unless the female equivalent of your name is more common

it’s very normality-oriented, like it’s the first thing people think to do & might be how others would rename you. it does have the practical downside that it will be easy for transphobes to guess your deadname

did you do it for your friends?

why did you write smut for women if you didn’t like it? was it a comissions thing?

riffing on the widely mocked tweet about how Alyssa Liu was “one magacock away from woketardism”

edit: *leaving

better than most masculinity-based compliments at least

same

many are saying this