I always put too much effort into my apperance.
One time When i was. Younger before they, Saw myFace or heard my Voice . i think it, Was a Long hair=Woman Moment .
i dont put effort into my appearance at all but i dont get misgendered really
>with 0 effort at all
I don’t show up to anyone without making my hair look somewhat normal, and voice still counts as effort, so no
with minimal effort, yes, but I don’t put much effort into my appearance in general. iwngmi, why bother.
im always gendered correctly as male no matter what i do
i dont even know if ur dooming or flexing
im flexing that im a cis man ofc
god im tired of trying to decipher ppl
im pretty simple to decipher i think…
Idk but i never go outside without at least properly clothing myself and showering
i can’t remember the last time i was gendered correctly lol
A couple of years ago some kid said “mom look at the bearded woman!” when I was still repping, of course I shaved immedietly after. Tho tbhon I had long hair and children are dumb so it doesn’t really mean much
(I was bedrotmaxxing at summer and went to a shop right after waking up so it’s definetly 0 effort)
Yeah
No
i have never been seen in 0 effort, i dont let myself be.
BUT if you mean VERY LOW effort, no makeup, shitty hair, but yes a bra. then yes, i have been
If “malefail” is being called ma’am by a cashier or having a stranger refer to me as a woman to someone else or something, then yeah, occasionally. Not often though.
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Had an old man on the tram call me “strong young woman” and ask me to carry him up the stairs a few months ago, that was kinda awkward and people stared
It happened a few more times than that iirc
like once or twice a month maybe. sometimes there’s months where it doesn’t happen, and sometimes it happens twice in a day. it’s pretty random and somehow doesn’t depend at all on what I’m wearing, if I’ve even shaved or done my hair or whatever.
I think this might be because people here just rarely gender at all, i‘ve had months where i wasn’t called either one.
That’s what I’ve been saying. It’s hard to gauge how people gender you in their head unless they talk about you in third person













