Ember to 4tran4 · 2 days agoserious question 2: have you ever malefailed or gendered correctly with 0 effort at all, just got out of bed levels of 0 effortmessage-squaremessage-square22linkfedilinkarrow-up15arrow-down10
arrow-up15arrow-down1message-squareserious question 2: have you ever malefailed or gendered correctly with 0 effort at all, just got out of bed levels of 0 effortEmber to 4tran4 · 2 days agomessage-square22linkfedilink
minus-squarenebylinkfedilinkarrow-up2·2 days agolike once or twice a month maybe. sometimes there’s months where it doesn’t happen, and sometimes it happens twice in a day. it’s pretty random and somehow doesn’t depend at all on what I’m wearing, if I’ve even shaved or done my hair or whatever.
minus-squaregiuli9linkfedilinkarrow-up2·2 days agoI think this might be because people here just rarely gender at all, i‘ve had months where i wasn’t called either one.
minus-squarenebylinkfedilinkarrow-up1·2 days agoThat’s what I’ve been saying. It’s hard to gauge how people gender you in their head unless they talk about you in third person
It happened a few more times than that iirc
like once or twice a month maybe. sometimes there’s months where it doesn’t happen, and sometimes it happens twice in a day. it’s pretty random and somehow doesn’t depend at all on what I’m wearing, if I’ve even shaved or done my hair or whatever.
I think this might be because people here just rarely gender at all, i‘ve had months where i wasn’t called either one.
That’s what I’ve been saying. It’s hard to gauge how people gender you in their head unless they talk about you in third person