Fuck my stupid 15k worth of electrolysishon life

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    3 days ago

    Of course. Using it for face also is a good idea. Better ask a friend to help out, so you absolutely do not zap your eyes. Also good for hard-to-reach places (butt/back).

    Before buying the thing, I already started Laser at a professional for my face for quite some time. And I was at a very high setting, with slow progress. If I’m at the highest setting at the laser clinics bigass machine to get any more results with the last few hairs, I don’t think that the viqure will do much more with my blond hair and the very light hair that is left. Probably getting electrolysis for the last hairs after next session

    I was also kinda scared to start on face at first with the viqure.

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        3 days ago

        Seems fine ig

        It’s a bit weaker, slower and only for a smaller range of skin/hair-colors…

        But it is cheaper.

        If your hair is darker and you have patience. Probably a good compromise. Stronger than IPL. Some people even had success with just IPL (not me)

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          I hope it will work… but I need to figure out buying it first… I’ve got the money but still aint cheap for me to be honest. It would be a lang time investment

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            yeah… That’s why sharing with frens is a good idea. Also ask cissies.

            You only need it every 4 weeks. So I have it one week, give to next person, etc. so for just 250€, I get full body.

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              I don’t have any transfemme friends and wouldn’t dare come out to anybody and don’t know anybody that I am close enough with that would actually want to buy it with me… so it’s all on me in the end… also I want to use for my face too because I can’t live with these hairs anymore

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                Damn, that sucks🫂 No local LGBT group or online in your city?

                Do you live quite isolated? In the ass of nowhere, as we say in German?

                Or just socially isolated because depression/dysphoria?

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                  Just socially isolated and deeply undersocialised and unable to easily click with people. I’m deeply deeply awkward.

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                    You’re at uni, if I read correctly Can you join any clubs, sports, political, etc? Tranny self-help groups? So you have to meet people regularly…

                    Political might be dangerous with your shitty family… Maybe a sport club, that’s not too faggy, so your family does not notice. Gym, but only squats, calisthenics, running.

                    Skateboarding was great for me. Not too social, very accepting, lots of alternative people there. But still manly-coded enough for your family to not suspect anything. Also no changing rooms :) You can come and go to the park as you please, no pressure, no competition.

                    I also did dancing in college pre-transition. That was the best for self-confidence. But EXTREMELY scary… As the only “”“man”“” in an all-female group

                    Socialize there. Find people you can trust. Ask every fem (cis/twink) you get to know, if they want to buy the device together.

                    Or a female-dominated hobby like crafts. Learn to sew/knit. Join meetups, make/modify your own clothes.

                    Hackerspaces are also very queer, at least in Germany.

                    Just don’t rot. That has fucked me up royally. But understandable, when you don’t have much energy. It’s hard. But with more activity you also get more energy.

                    Like a vicious cycle, but i reverse :)

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                  3 days ago

                  Damn :( I just checked your recent posts 🫂 dire, but always keep going!