a comprehension issue isnt the same as an ability issue tho. i would concede if you actually had reasoning to believe you could not because you have like a super deep voice or super long vocal tract. i would say its like learning to wolf whistle, you keep trying with small adjustments until you get close to what you understand as a “better voice”, and refine from there. larynx lifting for me starting out (swallow and feel your adams apple go up, and keep it there) had me deploy a lot of muscles in my throat and tongue, which to where I sounded like Stitch trying to talk. It was practice to where I was using hums to try and keep the vibration in my nose or throat to where i didn’t sound like spongebob or a false falsetto. idk. i just want you to know it takes mountains of effort and sullying yourself for trying and failing won’t make you feel any better when your voice causes you distress still.
yeah, i didn’t say it was easy. a lot of shit is hard, its what makes you appreciate reaching a goal. if it weren’t you wouldn’t care about doing it. i get it sucks to have to do things other people were just given but control over what you desire and actually reaching something you’re happy with is a lot more impressive than those people who just take their voice or whatever for granted. nothing’s stopping you from taking a break either if you are tired of dealing with failure either. you got this, girl. u could always get lessons too.
a comprehension issue isnt the same as an ability issue tho. i would concede if you actually had reasoning to believe you could not because you have like a super deep voice or super long vocal tract. i would say its like learning to wolf whistle, you keep trying with small adjustments until you get close to what you understand as a “better voice”, and refine from there. larynx lifting for me starting out (swallow and feel your adams apple go up, and keep it there) had me deploy a lot of muscles in my throat and tongue, which to where I sounded like Stitch trying to talk. It was practice to where I was using hums to try and keep the vibration in my nose or throat to where i didn’t sound like spongebob or a false falsetto. idk. i just want you to know it takes mountains of effort and sullying yourself for trying and failing won’t make you feel any better when your voice causes you distress still.
It’s just too hard for me 😭
yeah, i didn’t say it was easy. a lot of shit is hard, its what makes you appreciate reaching a goal. if it weren’t you wouldn’t care about doing it. i get it sucks to have to do things other people were just given but control over what you desire and actually reaching something you’re happy with is a lot more impressive than those people who just take their voice or whatever for granted. nothing’s stopping you from taking a break either if you are tired of dealing with failure either. you got this, girl. u could always get lessons too.