im in my early 20s living with my parents and am a kissless virgin (not in an incel way tho i was just schooled at home and was 3-4 years younger than everyone in my college classes)
i kinda feel like it might give my life meaning to have a moid want me even if i know he’d see me as a moid at least i could be seen as a twinky moid (faketrans btw?)
i don’t know what to do tho like it’s scary but it seems like it would be awesome though and i kinda wanna hear from someone who has any experience with that at all
u should start with dating apps instead of a hook up app. just set ur self as gay.
grindr is the deep end and is quite traumatizing thb
it’s kinda shitty, just be sure to moidlarp so you don’t get tossed in a dumpster. prep sucks and also the dick is usually mid.
Ew, no
ok… sorry… why is it ew?
I don’t think you desire being lusted over. Grinder is a place people use for hookups. It’s male sexuality coded and exists outside a female-male dynamic. You want to be desired wholly, no? Meet new people but in normal spaces. University/school/any kind of social space that is normal.
ok that is fair. i will take this into account thank you
haven’t used any dating app
another tip. u can usually find people that will be going to ur university on dating apps. go after them, take it a little slow and worse case serio u get to know someone on campus,
would be nice if i didn’t already graduate and start working full time :')
oh, sorry didnt see rhe past tense
no worries i appreciate u :)





