im in my early 20s living with my parents and am a kissless virgin (not in an incel way tho i was just schooled at home and was 3-4 years younger than everyone in my college classes)

i kinda feel like it might give my life meaning to have a moid want me even if i know he’d see me as a moid at least i could be seen as a twinky moid (faketrans btw?)

i don’t know what to do tho like it’s scary but it seems like it would be awesome though and i kinda wanna hear from someone who has any experience with that at all

    • Basedandtrollpilled
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      3 days ago

      I don’t think you desire being lusted over. Grinder is a place people use for hookups. It’s male sexuality coded and exists outside a female-male dynamic. You want to be desired wholly, no? Meet new people but in normal spaces. University/school/any kind of social space that is normal.

      • nonedayOP
        2·
        3 days ago

        ok that is fair. i will take this into account thank you