im in my early 20s living with my parents and am a kissless virgin (not in an incel way tho i was just schooled at home and was 3-4 years younger than everyone in my college classes)

i kinda feel like it might give my life meaning to have a moid want me even if i know he’d see me as a moid at least i could be seen as a twinky moid (faketrans btw?)

i don’t know what to do tho like it’s scary but it seems like it would be awesome though and i kinda wanna hear from someone who has any experience with that at all

      • Basedandtrollpilled
        2·
        3 days ago

        I don’t think you desire being lusted over. Grinder is a place people use for hookups. It’s male sexuality coded and exists outside a female-male dynamic. You want to be desired wholly, no? Meet new people but in normal spaces. University/school/any kind of social space that is normal.

        • nonedayOP
          2·
          2 days ago

          ok that is fair. i will take this into account thank you

  • Injected-E
    4·
    3 days ago

    u should start with dating apps instead of a hook up app. just set ur self as gay.

    grindr is the deep end and is quite traumatizing thb

  • Injected-E
    2·
    3 days ago

    another tip. u can usually find people that will be going to ur university on dating apps. go after them, take it a little slow and worse case serio u get to know someone on campus,

    • nonedayOP
      3·
      3 days ago

      would be nice if i didn’t already graduate and start working full time :')

  • pleasantaftertastes
    3·
    3 days ago

    it’s kinda shitty, just be sure to moidlarp so you don’t get tossed in a dumpster. prep sucks and also the dick is usually mid.