I feel like ever since starting to actually put effort in transitioning I’ve always used hope to keep going. “Ah I bet E will make me look like a girl in a year. Okay that didn’t work, maybe another year :D. Okay wow still nothing, time for ffs, surely that’ll work :D.” I really hope it isn’t just a dead end after all this.
there isn’t one big thing that definitively decides whether you Pass ™ or Don’t Pass ™. becoming someone who passes is a slow process and while large stuff like ffs definitely helps a lot, nothing is a be all end all, and you will continue to slowly change and feminize over time. talk to diana about this
Very well put,
Having people register: “Woman” when they see / interact with you is the product of many many things all being calculated at one time, everything helps, and no one thing is ever enough
One of my biggest fears honestly. This better works, it’s all or nothing, I can finally recognise myself in the mirror or it’s the rope.
