I feel like ever since starting to actually put effort in transitioning I’ve always used hope to keep going. “Ah I bet E will make me look like a girl in a year. Okay that didn’t work, maybe another year :D. Okay wow still nothing, time for ffs, surely that’ll work :D.” I really hope it isn’t just a dead end after all this.
there isn’t one big thing that definitively decides whether you Pass ™ or Don’t Pass ™. becoming someone who passes is a slow process and while large stuff like ffs definitely helps a lot, nothing is a be all end all, and you will continue to slowly change and feminize over time. talk to diana about this
Very well put,
Having people register: “Woman” when they see / interact with you is the product of many many things all being calculated at one time, everything helps, and no one thing is ever enough