Hi before reading, this contains something that maybe is upsetting so skip it if you dont like to hear upsetting things… I have clothes i shouldn’t own anymore… I cannot throw them away… its so wasteful… they are perfectly fine clothes they are not torn or stained… I just cannot wear them anymore… and I cannot donate them because giving these to someone is very wrong… these were clothes I was wearing during rape… I cannot wear them… I cant look at them without crying and getting extremely scared… I dont know what to do with them… because its wasteful to throw them away… its a waste of money and resources and like theres people who have no nice clothes and im throwing nice clothes away… I cannot do that… but I cannot donate them… because its like think of the energies… and how wrong that is to make someone unknowingly wear clothes like that… it would be awful… I cant do that… so they sit in the corner of the middle drawer of my dresser… and I dont touch them… sometimes I just look at them when I want to feel upset… but idk… I dont knowww what to do with them…
its ok to throw things out sometimes
u cant just keep looking at them and upsetting yourself like that, i think it is probably worth talking to someone.
my worry is that you’ll just replace looking at those clothes with an other upsetting act
because its not just the clothes its the whole event that’s haunting u
They are still perfectly good… no tears…
burn them
Thats wasteful… they are still nice quality i just cannot wear them… if I have nice clothes and some people have no nice clothes its wrong to ruin the nice clothes… but I cant give them because they are tainted with bad energies…
the clothes are tainted, it makes sense to throw them away
They cost alot of money…
or cut them up and throw them away
I honestly think this would be a good topic for a therapy session.
Im not in therapy… I cannot afford it…
My heart aches for you girl im so sorry. Is there a way you could explain the situation to a friend? If anyone knows.
I have no irl friends to help… only online freinds
is anyone close enough to help?
No one irl knows about this… and I dont intend on telling anyone I know irl…
somebody go to her house and throw them away for her
have a friend come over and pick them up for you to throw them, if they are a good friend they will pressure you to let them do it. you cant have them around
I have no irl friends…
throw them under or behind a specific furniture , somewhere you never reach nor look at
put them in a small box and put that box in some corner where you won’t see it regularly
I have them in a dresser and I hardly use the dresser… most my clothes I hang in the closet… so kind of they are in a box in the corner already…
Sometimes it’s okay to throw something away… may I suggest setting a date… a peaceful day… preparing for it, emotionally and mentally… writing down everything you wanted to say regarding this terrible thing that happened to you… and then burning that letter with these clothes… giving yourself closure.
Ive tried… 2 times… its impossible… I cant throw them away they are not damaged…
They are… they are very damaged… these clothes also want peace… want closure… they don’t want to worn again… they remember too… let them return to the ground… burn them… so something healthier can grow from their ashes… a tree perhaps… let them rest.
Let go… you survived…
Now let yourself live as well
They need to burn to find peace then I have to burn for my peace as well… it doesn’t seem right… I cant burn them… its bad for the environment…
You don’t need to burn… life has burned you enough already… what you need is healing… please talk with somebody… one day I hope you can let go of these clothes
