• neby
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    18 days ago

    Damn, this post just unlocked an ancient memory of an online “relationship” I had with some woman in her 30s when I was like 14

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    18 days ago

    Me and my bf met in the game Mordhau and stayed in an online relationship until I got my surgeries done. Now since a year we are irl and its pretty great 😊

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        18 days ago

        I met all 3 of the guys I dated/ semi dated on there weirdly enough

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          18 days ago

          and they all fit the stereotype 😭

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            One was a deranged asian german. That I semi dated for a few months

            One was a malicious little hungarian who crashed out and outed me to the then online friend group out of spite only to be a called a faggot for dating a tranny after

            And the last one is a british guy who actually treats me well (even if he is pretty racist)

            The latter one is my current bf and we are going strong 🙏

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              18 days ago

              I know, I was one of the people desperately trying to talk some sense into you 😹

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    I have been 7 online relationships, and 7 offline ones. With my most recent one being kinda both LMAO I took all of them way too seriously and got a ton of trauma as a result

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        its called dating at 15 because parents suck and u look for validation in other people, then most of those people break up within like 2 to 3 months over like a single argument

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          Ahh I see. I’m sorry about that girl, teen relationships always seemed so rough

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            honestly girl, we get thru it :) i regret it so much. I lost so much of my own childhood on other people trying to convince them to not kill themselves

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        people kept wanting to date me and i still dont know why ;-;

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    when i was 17 i “dated” a guy off /soc/ for like a couple weeks, but thay was really more a sex thing so not really

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    18 days ago

    i have never been in a relationship both online and irl.

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    previously yes, tho it was an LDR not fully online we did meet in person every so often

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    a 29yo transbian sorta pressured me into one right after i turned 18 (before hrt cleared things up and i stopped id’ing as bi) yeah; lasted a little under a year on and off before i crashed out and broke up fully

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    I was in one for like two years when I was a teen but it was pretty unserious tbhon

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    I was 😔 shameful. She ghosted me a bit after I came out to her after we’d known each other for 8 years and been together for 2.

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    I was in an horrible one irl when I was 15 and that’s it

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    I was in like 12, like 6 were serious. 1 turned irl then kinda ruined my life Bpd hypersexual narcissistic histrionic chaser repper and had a rape count of 3 people that I now know of. I didn’t know until one of their victims messaged me a while after he moved in. Anyway I got him estrogen and got him out of his lil autistic depression shell only to find my partner turn into an abusive monster.

    I still talk to a couple of them, not the rapist dw

    properly vet discord friends before they move in I knew this person for 4-5 years on discord.

    But I still miss a few of these people I hope they’re doing well.

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    i was, we met up irl it was pretty cute actually