I’m a manmoder and don’t pass, but I can’t take the misery of manmoding and hiding anymore, so I feel like I should come out to some people at least so I can hear my chosen name and stuff irl for once. My friends are supportive and would go along with it, but I know it would feel fake and would just be them being nice. And after I come out, there’s not really a way to put the cat back in the bag again. So idk if I should do it :(
Can you get over the momentary embarrassment to have them perceive you as the real you and gender you correctly?
it would probably feel like they’re misgendering or humouring me though… 😔
that wears off and after that it just feels nice
Just do it foid