I’m a manmoder and don’t pass, but I can’t take the misery of manmoding and hiding anymore, so I feel like I should come out to some people at least so I can hear my chosen name and stuff irl for once. My friends are supportive and would go along with it, but I know it would feel fake and would just be them being nice. And after I come out, there’s not really a way to put the cat back in the bag again. So idk if I should do it :(