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Cake day: March 6th, 2026

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  • Yeah. I think when you grow up trans and in the closet it’s hard to learn how to relate to other people. Pre transition i was actually able to talk to people fairly well, but that was by relating to them as a person i was not, and that’s obviously not helpful in actually learning to form any meaningful type of connection. Even had a bunch of partners that i struggled to actually ‘love’ because they were loving a person i wasn’t. I think also that the more time you spend isolated and hurting, the harder it becomes to talk to and trust new people at the level required to create any meaningful connection (but this might be just me given how many times i’ve gotten hurt by friends and others). It’s not great










  • only thing that i find somewhat helped so far has been drinking a ton of water, i probably wouldve had even more loose skin otherwise. Im now getting into extended fasting which allegedly helps the most out of everything that isn’t surgery but i’m probably giving myself an ed in the process lmao