For the most part they are just playing a character as long as they aren’t really that dysphoric in the moment they enjoy the attention and style of conversation that comes with discussion of how well they pass with hons. Cements their place as a passoid and frustrates hons while making them despair.

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    It’s heartbreaking bc they compare themselves to like vogue models or smth not normal women. Even then. Sophia for example, og my god the prettieet girl ever I wish she was a uktroon she’s so pretty

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      Sophia is mad chill she just has image issue sometimes but we all do. She never torments people over it far as I know.

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    Maybe I am an optimist but I feel like when people are truly evil about this, you don’t really see them that much, because they have stuff going on outside of this. I think most of the people you see acting this way are genuinely pitiful

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      From what I’ve seen, I would disagree heavily. It also comes from interacting with stealth girls, who are evil as shit all the time and only reveal this when around other girls in stealth.

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        Yeah I haven’t gotten any peeks behind the curtain there, I imagine there can be some awfulness. It’s a tricky balance because I don’t want to encourage any of that kind of behavior that could do harm to others, but they don’t really get to me, like I’m sure the life they willingly build for themselves will be worse than anything I could say or do to them. But I’d hate to leave anyone alone with their misery.

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          They just like being jerks to trannies who don’t pass as well as them, mostly online. These are more online girls though. really just two I know.

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    patti if ur a passoid can we see ur face

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    I mean I try to avoid bdd posting because I really do it when I feel my face or body is all messed up, most of the time I feel fine, and I fucking hate seeing other people despair because of me.

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      I’m pretty open about feeling fine most of the time, its just sometimes I get sick to my stomach with dysphoria about myself.

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        you are not the person mentioned because you don’t take joy in making other people feel bad.

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    sometimes I wonder if they really think they r ugly, especially since alot of them girlmode

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      oh they absolutely do sometimes but it’s not all the time as they would have you believe

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    I’ve been saying for a while that I’m probably actually unironically BDD, and with that in mind, I genuinely struggle to understand how a bddoid could post face all the time, cuz the thought of people seeing my face has historically made me wanna kms and feel like I’m assaulting their eyes because I genuinely feel disgusting about myself. There’s some exceptions to this general rule, but I definitely agree that we get a lot of BDDlarpers, just because of how disconnected their words can be from their actions.

    I’ve shown face to exactly one person around here and was told I’m very pretty tho, alongside a number of irls who’ve said similar things, so 🤷‍♀️ I try to take that to heart. I wish I could take back the times I called myself a twinkhon, honestly. Stolen valor probably, even tho it feels true in the mirror.

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        not saying you’re doing it but you’re admitting that if you were it’d be larp for the sake of hurting others, it’s not just because you can’t fathom actually feeling dysphoria to such degree that such thing ain’t possible

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          I wouldn’t do something like that, I’m just calling it like I see it.

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    I don’t know how to apply this, also I’m not playing a character… I like sharing my selfies

    And also I do sometimes feel distorted by the mirror, and take selfies and then look back on them confused about why was I panicking

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      This does not apply to you, because you don’t take joy in the suffering of others. It doesn’t apply to you in general.

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      Yeah I just don’t like the narrative that they’re just wittle babies with BDD no they know