Overall I think t4t relationship tend to work out better just because we know what we’ve been through but I think it’s cruel to tell every trans person dating a cis person that their partner definitely sees them as their natal sex. If you know the couple irl and can see signs the cis one is lying then yeah, call that shit out. But if it’s just a random c4t couple and there’s nothing pointing to abuse or lying on the cissoid’s part, it’s stupid to give the trans person brainworms

  • YanaSolyahh
    2·
    5 days ago

    i mean, my irl cisf friend also helped me with diy after I explained to her that it isn’t dangerous at all as long as you know what you’re doing. I understand the frustration about cis people and I also have it (my family) but there are some good people out there fortunately

    • DeadlygiveawayOP
      2·
      5 days ago

      I know there are, ive got a few amazing cis friends who treat me great and have never been transphobic. I just also have brainworms about everything