Overall I think t4t relationship tend to work out better just because we know what we’ve been through but I think it’s cruel to tell every trans person dating a cis person that their partner definitely sees them as their natal sex. If you know the couple irl and can see signs the cis one is lying then yeah, call that shit out. But if it’s just a random c4t couple and there’s nothing pointing to abuse or lying on the cissoid’s part, it’s stupid to give the trans person brainworms

  • YanaSolyahh
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    4 days ago

    i know a c4t couple where the guy helped the girl with diy

      • YanaSolyahh
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        4 days ago

        i know right her parents (especially her dad) are insane so he really helped her out alot with money for existing

          • YanaSolyahh
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            4 days ago

            also thanks to him she’s a youngshit and got on hrt at 16 instead of 18 as she originally planned, so he’s actually really based yes

            • DeadlygiveawayOP
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              4 days ago

              This might have made my day tbh. I love hearing about actual good cis people, it helps remind me thar my friends aren’t cia psyops mafe to gaslight me

              • YanaSolyahh
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                4 days ago

                i mean, my irl cisf friend also helped me with diy after I explained to her that it isn’t dangerous at all as long as you know what you’re doing. I understand the frustration about cis people and I also have it (my family) but there are some good people out there fortunately

                • DeadlygiveawayOP
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                  4 days ago

                  I know there are, ive got a few amazing cis friends who treat me great and have never been transphobic. I just also have brainworms about everything