The ones of us who chase androgyny are doing it because this is the closest way to feel comfortable in our bodies and not because it’s the solution or cure to the dysphoria right? Like, It’s not like passing as a woman or a man and getting SRS where if that happens you feel either better or at least far less shitty. But we’re just going at this by ear. Also, our SRS options are kinda limited unless you want a nullectomy but I don’t think that’s the most commonly desired SRS. Please give descriptions of enby dysphoria below so I don’t feel crazy!

  • somethingnazar
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    2 days ago

    i’m kinda insane and fakeNB, so feel free to ignore my reply. but i would definitely say trooning for me has been defined as harm reduction / palliative care for dysphoria. but being giga-moided kinda makes this feel like a cope, since right now all my concern is in running as far from being a man as possible.

    that said, i do feel like my goals are inherently unobtainable—like, just speaking to what’s humanly viable—and that i would still be uncomfortable/dissatisfied even having been born “right” (although without a doubt better off.) but i also have a hard time moderating between hypothetical ideals and what might actually be within my reach.

    i mostly feel listless and like there’s not really anything i can pursue to exist comfortably in society. i’ve said it before but i sometimes think of myself as politically trans. i’m kinda just disturbed by sexual dimorphism and want to wage war on the agab cult. but i’m also an hrtrepper manmoder currently, so what stake do i even have in all this lol