- If I transition openly -> Abuse until Detransition
- If I transition secretly -> Abuse just later on
- If I leave my family -> Family suicide
- if I repress -> 50 years of suffering
- if I do conversion therapy -> suicide
- if I kill myself now -> Family suicide
- If I let them die -> suicide by guilt
This kind of situation cannot be solved…
The only option would be for my family to suddenly accept me being trans… which won’t ever happen.
And to all of you who say my family won’t kill themselves… they’ve already de facto did attempt to just waste away and die when I first ran away…
There is no solution… there is no hope…
Idk girl it feels like ultimatum maxxing might be better for you, kinda like, I’m gonna cut all of you away, if you don’t agree meeting with me only 2 days a week or something, and if they start abusing you don’t come back until they promise they won’t do it again, if they do, don’t visit them for 2 weeks kinda stuff.
If I say that though, my mother will immediately break down crying and begging me not to go and lose her mind and my brother will scream at me and wouldn’t that statement be outright abusive to them…?
No, let them scream once. When they finally calm down, they’ll come to terms. You can leave even if they start abusing you.