My issue is that I sometimes have racist thoughts… And I know me thinking like that is because I was taught all of this stuff early on but…
PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, EDUCATE ME SO THAT I DONT THINK AND ACT LIKE A STUPID FUCKING RACIST BECAUSE I KNOW THAT THIS SHIT IS WRONG…
how to stop being racist : Get a grip and correct your thoughts. You know they’re wrong and retarded and your gut feeling is wrong. That’s what makes us not monkeys. Use your brain!
SURE WILL DO. THANK YOU <3
any more ideas and advice?
talk to black people, be their friends. listen to them
I have never had black friends… like there are zero black people around me
speed isn’t so bad he makes dumb content for kids in the whole world. kai is a bad and stupid person though almost certainly
Ok so first of all I think you are talking more about black americans rather than black people as a whole, because culture isn’t a race thing, is more of a geographical one. You can also make legitimate criticisms of certain cultures without being racists, what makes you racist is if you attribute the products of certain cultures to the wrong things (eugenics, pseudoscience or whatever)
Yes, a lot of black americans hold conservative social views. Yes, a lot of black people are mysoginistic. Yes, some rappers don’t go beyond talking about the crime life in the music they make (mostly because these are the only things they know, or the things they know best). But the thing is that almost all poorly economically developed sectors or countries WILL hold these types of views. If you think about it, all these things you mentioned just come from the lower economic black sectors of the US. A middle class black american won’t have much in common with a black american from a poorer area.
The only way in which certain people can become more educated is by giving them more economic chances, decent access to education, etc. Race has nothing to do with these things
And the “improper language usage” thing doesn’t make much sense. Language is fabricated, not something set on stone
Also why did you casually add arab people in there, seems unrelated
Also why did you casually add arab people in there, seems unrelated
She is an Arab herself… many poc in Tranistan seem to hate their own people so much for some reason.
Internalized racism
But the thing is that almost all poorly economically developed sectors or countries WILL hold these types of views.
I think this is very much the answer… but doesnt this just mean I hate poor people?
Not really, it just means to recognize where these problems come from and tackling them from the root. If these poor sectors of countries get better economic advantages, the culture will change naturally. And this applies to every sector in the world.
You shouldn’t remove personal responsibility off of these people for thinking in problematic ways, but you shouldn’t be surprised either when these people (black americans, or just blacks broadly) have historically suffered all kinds of oppression, from their countries colonized, them being slaved on racial basis, or the more systemic racism
Thank you very much
you’re le welcome
I am le thankful
I added arab people becuse this exact thing you are pointing out exists where I am from among poor arab immigrant communities… we literally have arab gangster rap here and so much of the same stuff about guns and bitches and drugs and all that stuff…
And I hated growing up around it…
Well, I think that the gansta rap thing isn’t necessarily a bad thing. It’s just people talking about their reality, and that reality just changes through economic development, not through the things you rap about in your music.
You don’t have to like the culture (although I think that some of your dislike is kind of arbitrary and unfounded), you just need to learn where these things that can be perceived as problems come from.
Black americans nowadays have decently improved their life conditions compared to what it was some decades ago, so the things you are saying probably don’t even reflect all of black american culture (because yes, inside the US there can be different cultures)
That makes a lot of sense… thank you
And the “improper language usage” thing doesn’t make much sense. Language is fabricated, not something set on stone
Good point… I think I just really tried in my white school to avoid sounding “hood” because I was afraid people would see me as exotic or a thug or as macho for that…
(eugenics, pseudoscience or whatever)
NEVER. FUCK THAT SHIT. THAT IS BRAINDEAD!
The improper language thing didn’t really make sense to me, maybe because I’ve never considered cursing a racial thing. Cursing profusely is one of the stereotypes for a lot of races who arent brown
“My people are angry/passionate and curse a lot.” Is the most stereotypical it gets actually
also literally everything you mentioned is what modern white Americans do, am I missing something? infact alot of what u said I see more from white people than black people
Yes… I get that… I just have like a real issue with getting the “ghetto” and especially the super “stupid macho hypermasculine violent ethnic man” image out of my head that I have come to associate with black people and arab people and I hate myself for it!!!
so all black people to you are stupid ghetto macho hypermasculine 😝😝 and violent cool i share a space with u
I am sorry… I am really not intending to like be racist… I want to get rid of this perception… that is why I made the post to beginn with…
NO. They are precicly not that!!!
But that is this fucking thought in my head which I know is not true and I want help removing it because it is wrong!!!
I know this isnt true but something fucked me up to believe it is because the first black men that I personally knew literally abused me and my mom and almost killed my mother (not fucking kidding, she ended up in the hospital) and all the arab men I know did the same and acted exactly like that and I saw it in the culture like so much… arab men especially are like that… at least the bad ones and my mind has hatefully exteneded that to black people but I dont want that cause I know that this is just my bad experience and not reality!!!
You’ll work through it, I know it.
Thank you… I am really trying!!!
why are you fixated on color rather than them being abuser men? wtf? a lot of MEN abuse women and children. a lot of WHITE men do it as a rule. u had to already be racist or something because that makes no sense. ur just like those people that hate trannies because of one tranny they met and didn’t like
I am not fixated on color because of these first encounteres… I think that these encounters just made worse what was already there which was that I grew up with like the arab equivilant of “hood culture” and that made me hate that and when I later saw it in other communities oversees (black americans) I then recognized it and felt the same feelings towards it…
I think the other comment about how this is more about economic stuff is actually really good and explains a lot of this to me very well…
Don’t really know what to tell you on this one, I don’t struggle seeing other cultures as inferior because it takes an IQ above room temperature. Black incel fucks killing trans women? That’s for sure mostly crackers. 100%. Streamers for actual babies make you racist? Seriously, come on! I get it. Rough childhood and masculinity harmed you as a kid. Me too. But christ almighty.
fucks sake! most of this goes away if you turn off your phone and talk to black people and listen to the music or something! it’s art! It’s got heavy topic and themes! white people get gorecore or whatever!
I am sorry for these sentences… I removed them cause they are stupid…
You are right… I just see this generall idk… glorification of “hood culture” and that is like… something that makes me think very bad racist thoughts because in my mind I just dont understand like… it seems to me that non-white people have a higher chance of being bigoted patriarchical and like bad in some ways which is total bullshit but for me in my head it just has felt like… white people will be nice and then you will have all these arab guys and black guys and they are all these hypermasculine assholes and then “in the culture” you have all this stupid rap music with swear words talking about killings people and drugs and yk I grew up with arab german gangster rap… we have that here… like we have a very similar culture here with rap… and I always hated that… like yk???
hood culture can be cool. Personally, I like a lot of it. There’s a lot to it. I get disliking it I mean, but you gotta do your best to not see a race as subhuman because you don’t like a small subset fo men
I dont see black people as subhuman… Absolutely not… that would be batshit insane…
I just really idk feel bad because I sometimes think bad things such as…
“why are all these black men like this and curse and talk about ‘fucking bitches’ and whatever and are these macho assholes and why are black women all shallow and materialist bimbos who talk in like such a cunty way and like wtf I dont get that”
AND I KNOW THIS ISNT ALL OR MOST OR ANY BLACK PEOPLE ACTUALLY…
I HATE THESE THOUGHTS. I WANT TO SEE PEOPLE IN A BETTER LIGHT
I mean even if they were talking and acting in a certain way, who cares? These stereotypes are literally nonsense. There is nothing behind them of value besides not liking how they speak and act because they’re all a certain way to you. It’s not just about not thinking this way anymore, but not thinking the way of being that you describe is terrible at all. Anyway, it should be easy since you know the problem now. Start correcting your brain.
Hmm… yeah… I still dislike certain things though but I guess you are right… I really need to work on like my internal sense of needing to be white and respectable, I think…
yeah, I really hate that shit.
I am sorry… please dont hate me :(
die white devil
I AM NOT WHITE… I JUST HAVE A LOT OF INTERNALIZED RACISM THAT IS SPILLING OVER INTO RACISM TOWARDS MORE PEOPLE. AND I SPECIFICALLY DONT WANT THAT… I made the post cause I want help with that
when i do this im hitler 2…
Yeah, it is bad and I dont want to be racist!
cool we going kill u thats the cure ☺️
Aubrey… no, pls wtf… I am not trying to be evil… I swear!
maybe dont say racism thats a start -_-
Is… that a typo… uhm… okay, will do!
i really hope you yourself are black i’m just assuming you are
I am sorry… I know this comes acorss as incredibly racist… I am not black :(
wtf. fuck you
I am sorry… I am arab though but I mean… yeah it is super racist but that is why I am asking… please… how can I please be not like that cause it is really bad!
Honestly wtf is even black or white or asian or any culture. I have no idea what those cultures are. I only see people shouting stereotypes of these cultures which are largely overblown. I don’t associate people with their race, only on what they are.
That is a very good mindset that I will try to adopt as well!
Okay, I think you’re fundamentally looking at it the wrong way. You need to stop thinking about Arab/Black culture as on an axis of Civilized or Ghetto. What I’m feeling from the writing is that you feel as if the negative aspects of these cultures are lesser and therefore responsible for, at least partially, the discrimination of them.
Mentally you process the white versions of these negative aspects, which there are many examples of, as irregular for white people so it’s not a reflection of their culture.
You need to be able to see things you don’t like about your culture separately from the white supremacist view of it. Anti-blackness has a hand in the discrimination of all black people otherwise there wouldn’t be this weird hierarchy of brown people. So as long as you think this way you’ll be at least partially engaging in it.
Also, I don’t think you should take this as a criticism on your morals or anything. Every poc has to battle with white supremacy, and most of the time they lose. At least you’re trying to undo it
Thank you… I think you are spot on…
I need to see the “bad stuff” in arab/black culture not as defining that culture!!!
Idk I hate gangster culture and the things you said regardless of which culture it is. With exception of the streamers. Didn’t know that this was racist. But in general I literally never judge nor steretype or highlight anyone because of their race or their culture.
Good point… sterotypes are the issue
Literally all of the things u mentioned goes for white people as well, or at least in a different form. Good thing is that you know it’s bad to be racist and so you can change your ways pretty easily. and as others have commented you can socialize with black people and getting to know them better…
I think getting black friends might help a lot…

if this is a serious post and not just a troll. in regards to Black culture: read a book or poem written by one of the great Black writers. listen to jazz, disco, soul, rock&nroll, rap that touches on serious painfully real topics (which yes include the woes of the gangster lifestyle at times), blues, learn that a LOT of modern music has roots in Black american culture. watch a movie/show centering our classic icons. look up what AAVE is, our dialect is not ignorant, its a dialect. look up the pioneers who steered a movement, who were brave in times of trouble, who invented something useful. we can be thoughtful, sophisticated, loving, talented, sensitive, powerful.
get over your bias, dumbass. it is nobody elses job to educate you, a grownass adult, on how to be less racist.
in regards to arab culture: i do not know much about it, i havent been around it much, but even i know some of the most poignant and sophisticated poetry in existence comes from arab culture. and music as well. you should look at the emotion and intelligence that comes from poets and musicians of the past and realize that arab culture can be beautiful as well.
This picrel is giving phenomenal black woman Facebook mom I’m giggling
when the nonsense is so bad i gotta summon the immense power of a no-nonsense Black grandma who reads james baldwin and women’s health magazine, crochets in church, and plays solitaire on facebook
Semoyon and white twinks both say they have a black woman inside of them. Wonder who’s telling the truth
im quarter white twink on my mothers side
Thank you… this was very educational
tldr get a grip girl, and i could literally give you a list
Good Idea… (also, yk I can be often very extra… I know racism is bad and in day to day life and generally on a congitive level I am not racist and appreciate a lot of the things black people have done and like culture and people a lot… today was just a day where I saw a lot of stupid things and my brain was very bad)










