i always look down on people when they’re in relationships where the only thing they get out of it is being loved. it’s incredibly selfish and egotistical to focus on being loved instead of loving your partner. you should always maximize loving someone , and minimize loving being loved.

so wouldn’t it be wrong of me to be upset over being unlovable??? ur own lovability should be an entirely neutral trait to u , since it doesn’t matter if someone loves u or not. all that matters is that u love them. stop being self-centred