Ok I know on a logical level that I have some pretty attractive features… but they’re attached to me… that makes them kinda awkward… no…?

Also I don’t have a vagina… so like what’re you gonna do… just look at me…? Is there something on my body I’m not seeing… am I secretly something completely unimaginable? I’m just a pile of flesh with my head on it… like I guess maybe if I’m seeing as a glorified toy… but even then I don’t have the main hole so it’s not like I’d be a useful one… I’m confused

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    I don’t get it either, but I just have to believe it happens. My gf stares at me rather intensely when changing clothes or simply when I’m not wearing much. She tells me I look hot. This has been going for years, at some point I just had to realise it’s real. I don’t know why, I don’t know if it’s just her or if there are others, but I know it’s real. And if it can happen for me, then it can happen for you.

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      Yeah, but it’s so… weird no… like… I can’t wrap my head around it because I could never imagine myself that pretty… there’s pretty people and then there’s me, who is honestly gonna have to make it out on personality, and I don’t even have much of that

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    Real except I have like no attractive features (unless we’re counting stuff that’d attract androphiles LOL)

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      I mean estrogen makes your boobs soft from my experience, I’m generally flat but the skin around my boob is so much softer because of estrogen… so even if you can’t see it, it’s still nice…?

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          Well, I imagine it does, I don’t know what does, I don’t think it’s helping me, but then people stare at them so much… it’s confusing

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            Mine aren’t big enough to be seen lmao. Not even trying to hide them either

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                  I’m sure I’m not that bigger, I am very much on the smaller side, and am basically in the itty bitty titty committee…

                  You may be too, but I won’t discriminate against fellow small boob havers…

                  Yes I’m slowly developing small boob overcompensation energy…

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    yeah I have attractive features but they’re all manly ones so I’m kind of being dumb by trooning

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      Tbf I don’t know what makes men attractive, it’s not like there are particular features imo, so I don’t think you’re dumb for trooning out… I don’t think if you troon out you wouldn’t develop gynoid features, and I think having them is enough…

      Honestly just having any breast budding is enough to be found attractive I think…?

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        fair. I’ve thought manmoder boobs looked kinda good on other people before.

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    “I’m just a pile of flesh with my head on it” You kinda said it yourself, any normal person looking for a long term partner won’t demand physical attractiveness but personal compatibility

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      That’s fair, it’s just so confusing thought because I’m a heavily traumatized and heavily neurodivergent individual, so it’s not like that’d help me…?