why do so many trans women try to justify their transness by explaining that they didn’t like sports as a kid or that they liked insert stereotypical female child activity. these are literally just social expectations that are forced upon girls, so why do you think that validates you as a woman? i get trying to make sense of why you are dysphoric but it just sounds so dumb to me now. i guess even i have pointed to having similar “signs” growing up to try and make sense of it all but i think there r probably a lot of normal men that also tried on their sisters/moms clothes, liked makeup, etc etc.
I think the only thing that makes me a trans woman is that i have a deep discomfort with my sexual characteristics and i don’t really think any interest in a certain activity that is commonly pushed upon one gender has anything to do with it.
not sure if i’m making much sense here, don’t know where im going with this rlly but i have just been kinda taking a step back and trying to understand this fucking mental illness and i don’t see the correlation with liking certain things to being a woman. maybe i am dumb and this is very obvious to most but like idk i just was watching soft white underbelly and so many of these girls are like explaining that they didn’t like baseball and that they liked boys so they knew they were a woman. like what
yeah I agree, I tried explaining it to myself using this logic and it doesn’t really make sense. like, yeah, I liked doing lots of crafts with mom and grandma when I was little. but I also used to hang out with boys and do stupid shit. sounds like a confirmation bias to me tbh. the thing that makes me trans tho is that I used lock myself up in restroom when I got home and cry there almost everyday after I started going through puberty. but most if not all of the cultural things are just sexist bullshit. im not judging, that’s an innocent enough cope I feel like, but yk
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because dokkktors decide if youre trutrans based on that stuff😭😭
which is so strange bcz why do they take not liking golf as a bigger sign of being a woman than wanting to cut ur penis off
dear trans women, why does conforming to social expectations of femininity make you feel feminine?
i get that it can make you feel feminine but idk like does that really mean anything tho
this foid thinks that “gender is a social construct” = “gender doesnt mean anything” 😂😂😂
not what im saying
