why do so many trans women try to justify their transness by explaining that they didn’t like sports as a kid or that they liked insert stereotypical female child activity. these are literally just social expectations that are forced upon girls, so why do you think that validates you as a woman? i get trying to make sense of why you are dysphoric but it just sounds so dumb to me now. i guess even i have pointed to having similar “signs” growing up to try and make sense of it all but i think there r probably a lot of normal men that also tried on their sisters/moms clothes, liked makeup, etc etc.

I think the only thing that makes me a trans woman is that i have a deep discomfort with my sexual characteristics and i don’t really think any interest in a certain activity that is commonly pushed upon one gender has anything to do with it.

not sure if i’m making much sense here, don’t know where im going with this rlly but i have just been kinda taking a step back and trying to understand this fucking mental illness and i don’t see the correlation with liking certain things to being a woman. maybe i am dumb and this is very obvious to most but like idk i just was watching soft white underbelly and so many of these girls are like explaining that they didn’t like baseball and that they liked boys so they knew they were a woman. like what