sort of like a chicken and the egg situation. idk which came first. cause most of the time idc about my height all that much. i can like being taller than others. makes me feel attractive.

but it also makes me feel like im just never really going to be seen as a woman unless i gigapass too. which i never will, so i kind of just dont see the point in trying. where as if i was short, id automatically be seen as more feminine by default without anything else changing.

tldr, im faketrans or something. idk

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    9 days ago

    :(( . tbh… idk if id want to be that much shorter than i am… even though im taller than all the women where i live…

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      9 days ago

      thats cause even though height is relative to an extent, youre still really short in the grand scheme of things

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        9 days ago

        hmm yeah but i dont think it makes people percieve me as more feminine ever, whether im here or in the uk im always read properly as a man

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    9 days ago

    you might decide im the faketrans one for this but i actually think this is a pretty normal way to feel about your own appearance, at least within/ in relation to the cis woman paradigm

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      9 days ago

      the faketrans comment wasnt serious, dw