• Anna Bolshevik
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    29 days ago

    I don’t think this is true in most cases. maybe in some, but often the trauma of how being trans gets us treated also shapes us.

    I’d be unlovable either way sure, I have a personality but barely sure, but I don’t think we can separate that from not having gotten any childhood at all. thought that was the case before I was trans too, it made sure that continued I guess.

    idk, sorry for being inherently bad I’m trying so hard but idk what I’m supposed to do

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      29 days ago

      if it’s such a hopeful message please explain to me how one can fix being evil and bad and boring because they didn’t get to learn anything about socialising without their choice? I can’t go talk to people and make friends, since I’m so evil and bad and boring, I’d hurt them with that so I can’t try that without being even more of a bad person as you say. so I guess this is the “just stop having mental health issues” school of thought?

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        29 days ago

        you seem to be being cruel for honestly fun? I’m not sure. I’m not in the state to deal with being told everything is my fault and I should fix it by simply not having panic attacks trying to talk to people.