Yes yes, i know. “Internalized Transphobia” is almost a buzzword now. Used by Theyfabs to talk down on actual real trans people with real dysphoria. But that doesn’t mean it doesn’t actually exist.

I see so many posts on here about “I am not a woman cause I don’t look like one” or “I’m so malebrained, I’m probably faketrans”.

Do we not believe in ‘Neurosex’ (or whatever people call it now) anymore? You already are a woman/man regardless of how you feel or look right now.

And yes, I know that won’t magically fix your dysphoria, but it’s important to not make your already very shitty situation even worse by constantly trash talking yourself.

There is also no fucking thing like “faketrans” or “male/femalebrained”. Yes I use these terms too, as a joke. In an ironic way. But I’m starting to feel some of y’all are starting to actually believe that bullshit. “A lie told once remains a lie but a lie told a thousand times becomes the truth” ~Joseph Goebbels (lmao ik)

Sorry if this comes off as preachy. I’m just trying to help. I know we wanna doom here in peace. But maybe sometimes posts like this one are necessary to not completely lose hope.

Love you all.