idk where all the misogynistic doods came from but its so tiresome. apparently misogyny is totally cool and okay if you just preface you’re talking about cis women.

and then while it isnt anything new, the never ending oppression olympics actually make me wanna kms. people acting like that since cis people dont face as much institutional oppression that means cis women must suddenly not face any systemic problems.

idk about yall, but if im supposedly a woman, then im gonna care about women’s issues and support the liberation of all women, cis or trans, from misogyny and patriarchy.

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    It’s so awful.

    I hope this place lasts a good amount of time cause I am not going back there lol.

    Nowhere and nothing is perfect but I do legit mostly enjoy it around here.

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      Coulda made this comment myself Scrimblo…

      I’ve done a very good job of mostly never looking back… when I first migrated here I spent like a good 90 days not even opening Reddit… now I check back in every now and again, and it’s like, wtf… like 4t4 was admittedly quite bad in a number of ways when I left and, and even before then… but I do not remember it quite being whatever the fuck it is rn… nice to know I’m not just being a rose-tinted glasses mfer when I think this stuff. Tranistan can be really retarded, but it’s like… the most tolerable internet, as far as I’m concerned…

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        The subreddit is just a constant nonstop barrage of coal and its annoying.

        Idk. I made a post about this but I think one of the reasons I mostly enjoy it here is that it just reminds me of how smaller internet forums used to exist, back before everyone got shoved into a small amount of massive websites.

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          Absolutely agreed on that front… Reddit 4t4 making it big was honestly the absolute death of it’s quality… I mean, using terms like hon and passoid doesn’t unredditify it at the end of the day, people get cyphoned into there from the same big internet algorithmic ecosystem, and then adopt groupthink-approved identities from there… things lost their organicness and authenticity a while ago and it’s been in an absolute spiral since, and it was only inevitable, really.

          Regardless, I feel a lot less neurotic on here, things are certainly more intimate… not for the hardcore sortfags who need a constant stream of tranner/channer-themed content to lull them into a stupor, but there’s something special here that’s previously been lost elsewhere, something that I’ve struggled to articulate the lose of properly until rather recently.

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    I haven’t been to that place in months and everything i hear about it now makes it sound more miserable than ever

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      alot of it is the same, annoying theyfab posting, twitter screenshots, etc. not a ton has changed. i just see a lot more openly misogynistic guys than i used to and it makes me sad

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      Omg based (except handsome cute men who are loving and gentle and don’t hurt women and…) Sorry… eh… yeah… Kill all (bad) man

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    this is all fucking stupid

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      idc really what you find stupid and not tbh

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        I know you despise me, you always have, I’ve seen it before, but you still have to stop and think “Is bootlicking cis women, really the go-to?”

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          yall call any sort of solidarity with women, when we are supposedly women, bootlicking so no. im not gonna take that shit seriously lmao.

          also i dont hate you. hate takes energy and its not worth my time

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            That’s not what I did or am doing

            “supposedly”

            “i dont hate you”

            I’m seeing a disconnect here

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              ??? im saying that we all are women, right? the trans women here i mean. no one here is saying we arent women. so if we are women, then we should support all women. its simple as.

              you read into the wrong things every time you talk to me. idk why you seem to think i actively think about you in any capacity. idc. i know nothing about you. i have no reason to hate you.

              and then, if thats not what you were doing then why tf did you say im bootlicking cis women?

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                I don’t think you actively think about me, you just despise me when you do think about me and I said you’re bootlicking cis women because you are, there’s a difference between believing, supporting, and wanting to fight for womens rights versus just bending the knee and lapping up the mud off the boot of some cis women who misgenders you

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                  there’s a difference between believing, supporting, and wanting to fight for womens rights versus just bending the knee and lapping up the mud off the boot of some cis women who misgenders you

                  and when did i do this 😭😭😭😭

                  you are so unserious. idk how you expect me to actually have conversations with you when youre constantly making up things about me in your head.

                  all i said was being misogynistic is bad. period. doesnt matter if youre being misogynistic to a cis or a trans woman. its bad. why is that so controversial to say?

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    I think it’s cool if they are genuinely misogynistic not transmisogynistic and only show it to be really violent and cruel to their partner. If they’re showing it outwardly it’s cringe