I’m not going to be in a position to be able to really transition for a very long time, although I am on HRT. I don’t expect to ever be able to look like a woman but I would like to at least hurt less. As such, does anyone have any tips on how to distract myself or accept my situation a little better? I mostly just dissociate but I still have times where I am reminded of the fact I am literally God’s strongest Grendelmoder and I look like the only thing I am good for is eating noisy tribesmen.
I guess it depends. Do you have friends or family you like? Hobbies? Work you enjoy maybe? (lmao like anyone has that) Those are things I do to distract myself. Texting with friends, playing games, watching stuff. Stuff other people do to.
What helped me to accept my situation more was the fact that with hrt it can only really get better at least imo. With hrt my body stops becoming more and more what it wasnt supposed to be yk?
Hope that somehow helps, sorry if not.
I do have a couple of friends and I do really enjoy their company. I don’t really have any hobbies atm because I so rarely have the energy to dedicate time to them. I will try harder to pick up some hobbies I suppose.
As far as games go, I have had a lot of success in the past from playing overly complicated games so that my mind is fully concentrated on something other than myself, although I have been finding that to be less effective of late.
Thanks for your help though I really do appreciate you taking the time to try and give me some advice :)
Of course! Always happy to help :)
What kind of games do you play?
I like to play all sorts of things really. It’s not exactly breaking any stereotypes but I quite like playing strategy games and city builders. Having to manage lots of different tasks helps take my mind off of things. I am looking to branch out into other games now though because I have gotten too familiar with how these games work that they no longer take up as much of my attention as they used to.
I saw a video online of someone playing Vintage Story and I might give that a try as it seems pretty in-depth.
What kind of games do you play?
try chess! lichess.org/ as someone who was hrt repping, is now repping and plans to hrt rep in ghe future, its my go to for distracting myself
This is a really good suggestion thank you
Ah cool :) I play pretty much everything. But I also really like city builders and grand strategy games! I like rimworld, hoi4, crusader kings and so on. Vintage Story I have played too and its very fun! Let me know if you ever need someone to play something, maybe we can play something together :) you can add me on discord if you want, its on my profile ^^
I’ll be sure to send you a friend request when I am in the mood for some games then! :))
cool :)
take hrt and manmode. what are other tips you expect
I was just looking for any advice others had on what they do to avoid thinking about it
Literally just dress as a man, otherwise I don’t really know how to hide breasts other than wearing baggy clothing like hoodies. Still trying to figure out how to hide breasts without binding as that deforms breast tissue
