Some people are born female, others male. it’s just how it is. Why try to change it? why pour so many resources into it and sacrifice so many things for it just to live a mediocre (at best) broke ass life?

How can I accept my body better, like how cis people with body dysmorphia accept their own bodies and ignore the need for an expensive cosmetic surgery, for example?

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    because thats a permanent part of your brain. get used to it

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      26 days ago

      but fr this has always been source: some trans women have had a brainscan which aligned with that of cis women and not cis men, and then this whole theory that EVERYONE (even the faketransest of us) must clearly have the same was extrapolated from that which is not a valid logic inference and has only been reinforced bc this place (and the reddit counterparts) is an echo chamber

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        26 days ago

        if you have dysphoria its not gonna go away. thats it really, you dont need brain scans for these you have plenty of john 50’s examples. if you wanna be an another john/jane 50 go ahead idc really

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          idk why you’d wanna live to 50 anyway, or even 30, but if i can find a way to not constantly obsess over my body, like i used to, that’s definitely worth it until i kms eventually anyway

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            well theres alcohol, drugs or brain breaking procedures. choose one i guess

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      Where’s the proof for that. Also the brain is extremely plastic and can change tremendously so why not do some idk EDMR brain fix. Dr. Powers said he cured on ftm patient. So maybe we just need some health checkup plus therapy

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        yeah you can get a lobotomy, that would fix it. but its kinda equivalent of dying soooo. i guess enjoy life as a husk?? idk