Yeah like I completely get this and as someone who started at 37 I tend to think everyone is being ridiculous and unfair in these sorts of things. You have every right to your misery, and you have not had it easy. But people really do not seem to be good at avoiding torturing themselves with this stuff, so I kinda get it when they put the blinders on. But it would be better if this could be different.
Yeah like I completely get this and as someone who started at 37 I tend to think everyone is being ridiculous and unfair in these sorts of things. You have every right to your misery, and you have not had it easy. But people really do not seem to be good at avoiding torturing themselves with this stuff, so I kinda get it when they put the blinders on. But it would be better if this could be different.