I’ve always sat like that, and I occasionally see men doing it as well, but I remember this one time in like middle school where I was doing it in music class and the 2 kids next to me started talking to me in valley girl fagcent to tease me. I took it as reinforcement to keep at it because I so rarely got to express any real faggotry let alone femininity outside of being the kid who was a brony bc it was a religious school so I couldn’t grow my hair out or anything.

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    I’ve always sat like this. One fella in high school mocked me for it and said it would make me infertile and give me erectile dysfunction and was perplexed when I answered “GOOD!”.

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    depends on how metrosexual you look. you gotta cross knee over knee in just the right way, or you either look like a fancy businessman, or an old dad drinking coffee and reading the newspaper. any other way it looks gay

    women can go knee over knee whatever, whenever, but if she does the ankle over knee shes either too masculine or shes an old grandma who doesnt give a fuck.

    (im kidding by the way)

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    I’ve been told I’m not supposed to be comfortable sitting like that unless I have a tiny dick, but that never stopped me. I didn’t care if I was apparently broadcasting being small, it’s comfortable… and considerate of others space. It went from being great to being s-tier after the orchie too aha

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      I’m also post orchi and now I really can’t envision sitting any other way on top pf it already being the habit

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    i used to sit with my legs spread but my mom would nag me about it constantly so now i cross my legs instinctively while sitting