I’ve always sat like that, and I occasionally see men doing it as well, but I remember this one time in like middle school where I was doing it in music class and the 2 kids next to me started talking to me in valley girl fagcent to tease me. I took it as reinforcement to keep at it because I so rarely got to express any real faggotry let alone femininity outside of being the kid who was a brony bc it was a religious school so I couldn’t grow my hair out or anything.
depends on how metrosexual you look. you gotta cross knee over knee in just the right way, or you either look like a fancy businessman, or an old dad drinking coffee and reading the newspaper. any other way it looks gay
women can go knee over knee whatever, whenever, but if she does the ankle over knee shes either too masculine or shes an old grandma who doesnt give a fuck.
(im kidding by the way)